Pregnancy at a young age or rather at an early stage in life is so rampant now in our society and sincerely ladies tend to suffer or rather are affected the most when pregnancy occurs between young dating boys and girls.
So I will be talking about a particular friend (Tee) and I want you to read and give your candid advice to her.
She was a very lively and was very vibrant. Unfortunately, she dated a guy (Seyi) who she thought was very good to her and nice but he was just simply a green snake in a green grass.
He invited her over to his house, she went as usual thinking she was just going to cook for him and chill a little. But it wasn’t so, she was beaten and raped by the guy and the guy threatened her if she reported him. Due to the threat and love she had for the guy she didn’t report or say anything to anyone.
Things got so horrible for Tee when she got to know she was pregnant and Seyi asked her to terminate the pregnancy. She was hurt and she didn’t know what to do. Tee was just seventeen(17). She went back to his house the next day and to her greatest surprise she saw seyi’s wife and baby. So seyi was married all along.
She terminated the pregnancy and almost terminated her life in the process. Her parents got to know her about her lifestyle and her married boyfriend. She was so hurt.
She now became an addict to some of her characters like smoking, drinking and clubbing. She also started dating sugar daddies. She registered for jamb later and she got admitted into YABATECH.
Tee and I met at Yabatech. I was in my 2nd year and she was a fresher. We met during our departmental reach out. We became best of friends and she told me her past. I tried stopping her but I could only stop her from clubbing, drinking and smoking.
After I finished with my diploma course, I and Tee had dispute that made us stop contacting each other.
We reconnected back six months after, but a lot had happen she is a Christian now but she is pregnant.
She got pregnant to one of the boyfriend (Vic) and and she is planning on getting married to him but she doesn’t love him and he also does not love her.
Her parents chased her to the guys house.
So now guys she doesn’t know what to do? She can’t abort. She is five(5) months pregnant. She still has 2 carry over courses in Yabatech. And one of her boy friend’s also called her telling her she bought her a form for nursing school. She is vulnerable.
What Next After Pregnancy?
What should she do? Marry her baby father? Accept the nursing form from one of her sugar daddy?
Give your candid opinion.
Have a lovely Day.
Seems getting the nursing form and raised the baby will be the option. Coz if the force the wedding the marriage won't last longer since there is no love between them. She should just take the shame and move on with her life
ReplyDeleteThe situation she found herself is very bad but then she must not give up . The worse to do is to marry someone you don't love and who doesn't love you just because you are carrying his baby.
ReplyDeleteShe must not try to marry someone you don't love whatever the pressure from any quater
Trust in God , come close to Him , He direct you , comfort you, lead you and provide for all your needs
Believe in God and make sure you pray at all time. Continue with your schooling and do not marry Vic ooo
ReplyDelete1. Been pregnant 🤰 is not a certificate for a MARRIAGE
ReplyDelete2. There is no LOVE 😍 between them, so where is the connection come from. She should trying marring Vic.
3. She should accept the nursing 🤱🏽 form because it will be useful for her.
I think marrying someone you don’t love is better than continuing in a lifestyle that isn’t Christ like. Accepting the form and the money from the other guy would be the “easy” way out but she’s in a hard spot and deciding to be Christian comes with having to make hard choices
ReplyDeleteNow if she wasn’t Christian...
Go ahead do whatever...
ESP. If the guy she’s meant to marry doesn’t love her either it’s not that bad you have mutual feelings towards each other just work together and when you guys have your lives together... divorce. Gossip and judgment for actions is everywhere
Have your baby,take the nursing form,start your life all over again with your baby. Babies bring blessings. She will definitely get her life back.
ReplyDeleteShe should forget her past,now that she is now a Christian.
ReplyDeleteShe shouldn't abort the child. Because the child is life on its own.
And she should pray to quit the habit of sex addiction.
And for her academics...she should go into nursing..
That would be the best option
Tee,I understand your pains.The advices we are giving you are easier said than done but in this situation your human intellect and discretion will not help you.
ReplyDeleteMy candid advice is these:
1. Ask God for his forgiveness and his leading.
2. Never think of aborting the baby,keep the baby, endure the shame and hard times. God will see you through it all.
3. If accepting the offer from you other friend will lead you astray from the will of God for your life, kindly reject it.
God bless you and your unborn child.
I think the nursing form, and raise the baby is the best. She shouldn't even near the marriage, cuz she will always get hurt. As in everyone know that WHEN THERE IS NO LOVE. There is nothing.
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